I am not very good at approaching the lost with the wonderful news of our salvation through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Upon reading the Joy magazine (December 2010 issue) I came upon an article about the Broad and Narrow Road Posters. I was absolutely delighted, as, here was a way to reach people with the message of salvation. These posters depict the broad, dangerous and easy way to destruction and the narrow road that leads to eternal life.
I have been able, with the help of Pastor Roy Reddy’s ministry, to hand these posters out to people who need to be reached.
I volunteer with Ethembeni HIV/AIDS Ministry each Thursday by joining Dudu Zulu on her home visits to families affected by HIV. We have placed these posters at the local clinic that has been set up for AIDS patients and at the Family Centre set up for children that are affected by HIV.
The most amazing thing happened in January while we were driving through the Mpophomeni Township where Ethembeni ministers. I do not know how one of these posters got near my driver’s side door but when I opened the door one of the posters fell out onto the road. At that very minute a man came past and picked it up and asked me if he could have it. It looked a bit tatty having fallen on the road but he wanted it. I told him he could have it as long as he looked at it very carefully and showed other people it too. He said he would, with great enthusiasm. The care worker I was with told me he was a Sangoma. We were overwhelmed at God’s wonderful graciousness to His people. We prayed and are convinced that this man will be convicted of his salvation through this poster.
The poster has amazing spiritual impact with the extremely graphic pictures of the road to hell and the road to Heaven. Even an illiterate person can understand the message, without being able to read the relevant Biblical texts at the bottom.
They are printed in all languages so anyone can use them for evangelical outreach.
May this story of God’s plan for people’s salvation and His hand over “our gospel efforts in Jesus name” encourage you.
To purchase posters call Pastor Roy Reddy at 0828622356 or email him at allofgrace1@vodamail.co.za
Monday, February 28, 2011
Friday, January 28, 2011
Horse Paddock as a classroom by Linda Smallbones
Every Tuesday afternoon Thokozani, Mandisa, Siyabonga, Mpume, Alex, and Nobuhle rush to the Family Centre from school, gobble down their lunch and jump into the Avanza. They’re whisked off to the Karkloof where their newfound four legged friends await them.
In November last year, Liesl Jewitt, of Mizpah Farm Retreat contacted us at the Family Centre and offered to work with a group of our young people, introducing them to her horses and her horses to them in order to begin some unusual, but lovely relationships. When we approached the children individually to ask if they wanted to join in, most had never ‘met’ a horse before and were apprehensive of the prospect, but nevertheless all were excited about doing something different and new and did not hesitate to sign up!
The group arrived at the farm and found that they got more than they bargained for. Not only were they to meet horses, but also dogs. Now dogs they were all a lot more familiar with, but in a very negative way. I was at that very first session and saw a lot of fear on the young people’s faces. The group lined the inside of the paddock boundary fence, ready to jump over if necessary. A lot of new experiences confronted them.
I had the opportunity to accompany the group again four sessions down the line. The difference was phenomenal. Not only did the young people walk confidently into the horse paddock, but they walked straight up to their favourite horses, called them by name and reached out to give them a rub. The affection between horse and person was evident. During this particular session, Liesl started to teach the group how to groom the horses. I was astounded. By the end of the session the young people were leaning over raised horse’s hooves cleaning them, I don’t know if I would have had the courage! Furthermore, the group responded well to Liesl’s dogs and had learnt how to interact with them in a positive, caring way. Were these the same fearful group?
The benefits of these sessions are many. The young people have become more and more involved in the practical care of the horses, from grooming to helping feed them at the end of the session. This gives the group a sense of responsibility as well as giving something back, to Liesl and the horses.
Liesl is constantly talking to the group whilst they interact with the horses, pointing out what the animal is trying to communicate through their body language, observing out loud the human reactions and the results of the two combined! The group are becoming more self and animal-aware. They are learning that how they behave effects others, even animals. There is also a new confidence in the individuals, grown through learning something completely new. The horse paddock is a classroom, but where failure is not possible. Only learning … and more learning.
Thank you to Liesl and all at Mizpah for this amazing opportunity. We have seen that it gives the children great joy and the opportunity to step outside of their sometimes very stressful lives and out of their own world into a wider world. Thank you to Silver, Twilight, Lady, Scully, Isra and Dancer the beautiful regal creatures who are so patient with newcomers and allow us to get to know them.
Wedgewood economic development partnership
Wedgewood/Walters nougat have implemented a economic development project with Ethembeni where we employ young men and woman to tie ribbons. These ribbons get attached to gift packs of delicious hand made nougat and are sold through out SA! Innovative initiatives like these provide hope, skills and sustainability! Thank you John, Steve and Paul Walters!
Christmas box joy 2010
Three christmas parties were held in December 2010 where 226 children received boxes of joy....thank you to all who made up a box...blessings...and thank you to the wonderful carers of Ethembeni who demonstrate Jesus love every week....
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Celebrating goodbyes at the Family Centre
In the Family Centre, our aim is always to encourage and promote independence and growth of families, not to create dependence upon our limited resources which are very finite. We wish to encourage children and their caregivers to grow in family relationships so that they are nurturing for the child, to access appropriate resources such as social grants to which they are entitled, and to grow in relationship with God and dependence upon Him, rather than the MFC.
We always aim to grow meaningful relationships with each child that comes to the MFC. We want them to connect with their mentor, thereby having a trusting relationship with an adult who looks out for them and cares for them. It is therefore difficult when we realize that a family is able to function well without our involvement. We balance the relationships we have built with the child and their caregivers with their need to be independent.
When we see that a family is functioning well, we take a team decision to close with the family. We explain to the family that there are so many very needy children in the community that we need to make room for families who are needier than them. This is difficult for us, to say goodbye and to bring to a close years of work and involvement in a family’s life. This is also difficult for those children who enjoy attending the centre and have found good friends, spiritual support, and emotional support. However, it is part of our process and needs to be ongoing if we are going to grow and continue to help as many children in the community as God is calling us to.
Previously, we wrote about the “Z” family. They have been known to us for three years now. They are one such family with whom we have built significant relationships over the past three years. The children were orphaned after the death of their mother in early 2007. They were then cared for by their grandmother. The grandmother was elderly and rather frail. She died in December 2007, about four months after we had come to know the family. A woman from the community, Zandi, and her family offered to foster all of the children.
The children, now aged 16,13, 10, and 3 continue to live with Zandi and her family. The home has been extended and is comfortable and inviting. There are good relationships between the children and their caregivers. The children call Zandi “ma”. They have been receiving the Foster Care Grant for just over two years and this has certainly made a positive impact on the entire family. The grant enables the foster carer to provide for the physical needs of the children without putting the foster family under undue financial strain. This contributes significantly to the wellness of the children. This is evident in the way the children have adjusted to the foster care situation, to their ongoing progress at school, and to the positive relationships that they have developed with others at the Family Centre. They are in good health and by all accounts are happy.
Over the past three years we have helped in various ways. One child suffered sexual abuse, we accompanied the foster carer and child to the police station and provided support through the reporting process. That child received play therapy after the ordeal.
Another of the children was very involved in the Zulu dancing group and so developed a real sense of belonging in the Centre.
The youngest of the children has grown from an infant suffering from the loss of both her mother and grandmother in her 9 month old life, to a very vibrant and bubbly 3 and a half year old. She has attended the Early Childhood Development group for the duration of her time at the Family Centre.
The oldest child was very much affected by the multiple losses in her life. She also received play therapy. She has been through many different emotions and attitudes towards her foster mother as she has journeyed through adolescence. At present their relationship has developed into a good, close bond. They are able to communicate in a positive manner with one another.
They will be saying goodbye to the Family Centre at the end of August. It is with much sadness that we say farewell.
We always aim to grow meaningful relationships with each child that comes to the MFC. We want them to connect with their mentor, thereby having a trusting relationship with an adult who looks out for them and cares for them. It is therefore difficult when we realize that a family is able to function well without our involvement. We balance the relationships we have built with the child and their caregivers with their need to be independent.
When we see that a family is functioning well, we take a team decision to close with the family. We explain to the family that there are so many very needy children in the community that we need to make room for families who are needier than them. This is difficult for us, to say goodbye and to bring to a close years of work and involvement in a family’s life. This is also difficult for those children who enjoy attending the centre and have found good friends, spiritual support, and emotional support. However, it is part of our process and needs to be ongoing if we are going to grow and continue to help as many children in the community as God is calling us to.
Previously, we wrote about the “Z” family. They have been known to us for three years now. They are one such family with whom we have built significant relationships over the past three years. The children were orphaned after the death of their mother in early 2007. They were then cared for by their grandmother. The grandmother was elderly and rather frail. She died in December 2007, about four months after we had come to know the family. A woman from the community, Zandi, and her family offered to foster all of the children.
The children, now aged 16,13, 10, and 3 continue to live with Zandi and her family. The home has been extended and is comfortable and inviting. There are good relationships between the children and their caregivers. The children call Zandi “ma”. They have been receiving the Foster Care Grant for just over two years and this has certainly made a positive impact on the entire family. The grant enables the foster carer to provide for the physical needs of the children without putting the foster family under undue financial strain. This contributes significantly to the wellness of the children. This is evident in the way the children have adjusted to the foster care situation, to their ongoing progress at school, and to the positive relationships that they have developed with others at the Family Centre. They are in good health and by all accounts are happy.
Over the past three years we have helped in various ways. One child suffered sexual abuse, we accompanied the foster carer and child to the police station and provided support through the reporting process. That child received play therapy after the ordeal.
Another of the children was very involved in the Zulu dancing group and so developed a real sense of belonging in the Centre.
The youngest of the children has grown from an infant suffering from the loss of both her mother and grandmother in her 9 month old life, to a very vibrant and bubbly 3 and a half year old. She has attended the Early Childhood Development group for the duration of her time at the Family Centre.
The oldest child was very much affected by the multiple losses in her life. She also received play therapy. She has been through many different emotions and attitudes towards her foster mother as she has journeyed through adolescence. At present their relationship has developed into a good, close bond. They are able to communicate in a positive manner with one another.
They will be saying goodbye to the Family Centre at the end of August. It is with much sadness that we say farewell.
Ethembeni wedding
There were eight children ranging from 16 years down to 1½ years, five girls and three boys, living with their parents in the tiny two-roomed house. The mother was a shy, quiet woman, while the father was chatty, with a patch over the eye he had lost in a drunken brawl some years before. They had no income due to the fact that they were disabled by Aids and because despite repeated efforts to obtain an ID, the mother had not qualified to apply for grants for her children. Their sustenance came mainly from the vegetables the father grew in the garden next to the house.
Yet the moment we entered the house, we sensed an atmosphere of joy and peace. Joy and Wandile’s eyes lit up when they told how their lives had been changed since they had met the Lord. Wandile said glowingly: “ Since Jesus has come to live in this house, everything is so different ~ there are no arguments, the children are respectful and all of us go regularly to church as a family. There is peace and harmony here such as we never imagined could happen.” Their main desire was to get married in true Christian fashion, in the way God would honour.
Because it was none other than the Spirit that had prompted this desire, and because their motive was sincere, and because Wandile had been faithful to his partner and was the father of all eight children ( a rarity in the Zulu culture), we felt inspired to do everything we could to make this happen.
Grant set about liasing with Pastor Mjwara of the AoG Church in Mpophomeni, Tutu, my assistant got all the Ethembeni staff fired up, and Glenys sought out a smart suit for Wandile from amongst the second-hand clothing in the church basement. He was so excited when he tried it on and said: “All I need now is a pair of new sunglasses, a tie and socks!” That was all he ever asked for ~ Joy asked for nothing at all. It seemed appropriate that the five girls should be bridesmaids, and as the weather was still quite warm, I made the dresses without sleeves. I had already made the wedding gown, which fitted Joy beautifully.
However, time dragged on because of repeated failed efforts to obtain an ID, and I was beginning to worry as Winter was fast approaching. Anyway, on a chilly June, the great day finally came. Excitement filled the air and the weather was perfect. Kathy, Anne and two of the Ethembeni staff were already at the house to dress the bridal party. The neighbours had begun to congregate in the street as each bridesmaid was sent out into the sunshine to have their photos taken by Moses, our photographer. Tutu and Thembelihle helped the bride with her veil while Anne fixed the bridegroom’s tie, and I placed a folded new handkerchief in his breast pocket, and a chrysanthemum buttonhole on his jacket lapel.
Finally the couple appeared in the doorway to the chorus of loud ululation by the crowd which had swelled quite considerably in the street. Joy looked resplendent in her lace and tulle gown, and Wandile with head and face clean-shaven, looked quite dapper in his suit, sunglasses and white gloves!
In convoy, we drove to the Family Centre where a tent had been erected, I in the first car with all the bridesmaids waving their posies out the window and the hooter blaring through the streets of Mpophomeni. Anne followed with our two Zulu assistants, and Kathy came last with the bridal couple and two of the boys ~ also blaring the hooters!
By the way, while we waited those weeks for this event to take place, another baby girl had been born. At 2 months now, she was dressed in a warm white bunny suit for the occasion, and not to be outdone, the boys were provided with new jackets and shoes.
Thembelihle, bless her heart, had made herself an outfit to match the girls’ dresses, and had bought sufficient lime green chiffon and white lace to drape the rear of the tent. She had taught the girls a dance step to which they entered the service, to the keyboard music and singing, blaring through the sound systems. They looked very sweet as they entered, led by Thembelihle and little six year-old Minenhle. When the girls were seated, she went back and re-entered with the groom dancing at her side, and finally, she came in with the bride who walked sedately towards her man who met her halfway down the aisle.
Pastor Mjwara’s message to them was inspired and full of wise advice to the couple. There was the exchange of vows and rings, the kissing of the bride, and later, the cutting of the cake ~ all of which was somewhat foreign to the Zulu custom. However, the songs of praise and worship not only filled the tent, but rang out into the community beyond. During refreshments of cake and juice, there were speeches, and the bride and groom each shared their testimonies. I believe God smiled on that ceremony that day. I believe it was a witness of true commitment to one another and to God, to their children and to everyone who was present. We congratulate them for the stand they have taken, and may they continue to honour their commitment.
The celebration lasted until 3 pm when I took the bridal party back to their home, where their family were waiting to cook a meal and continue with the festivities.
A truly happy and God-glorifying day!
Nora Levang.
Yet the moment we entered the house, we sensed an atmosphere of joy and peace. Joy and Wandile’s eyes lit up when they told how their lives had been changed since they had met the Lord. Wandile said glowingly: “ Since Jesus has come to live in this house, everything is so different ~ there are no arguments, the children are respectful and all of us go regularly to church as a family. There is peace and harmony here such as we never imagined could happen.” Their main desire was to get married in true Christian fashion, in the way God would honour.
Because it was none other than the Spirit that had prompted this desire, and because their motive was sincere, and because Wandile had been faithful to his partner and was the father of all eight children ( a rarity in the Zulu culture), we felt inspired to do everything we could to make this happen.
Grant set about liasing with Pastor Mjwara of the AoG Church in Mpophomeni, Tutu, my assistant got all the Ethembeni staff fired up, and Glenys sought out a smart suit for Wandile from amongst the second-hand clothing in the church basement. He was so excited when he tried it on and said: “All I need now is a pair of new sunglasses, a tie and socks!” That was all he ever asked for ~ Joy asked for nothing at all. It seemed appropriate that the five girls should be bridesmaids, and as the weather was still quite warm, I made the dresses without sleeves. I had already made the wedding gown, which fitted Joy beautifully.
However, time dragged on because of repeated failed efforts to obtain an ID, and I was beginning to worry as Winter was fast approaching. Anyway, on a chilly June, the great day finally came. Excitement filled the air and the weather was perfect. Kathy, Anne and two of the Ethembeni staff were already at the house to dress the bridal party. The neighbours had begun to congregate in the street as each bridesmaid was sent out into the sunshine to have their photos taken by Moses, our photographer. Tutu and Thembelihle helped the bride with her veil while Anne fixed the bridegroom’s tie, and I placed a folded new handkerchief in his breast pocket, and a chrysanthemum buttonhole on his jacket lapel.
Finally the couple appeared in the doorway to the chorus of loud ululation by the crowd which had swelled quite considerably in the street. Joy looked resplendent in her lace and tulle gown, and Wandile with head and face clean-shaven, looked quite dapper in his suit, sunglasses and white gloves!
In convoy, we drove to the Family Centre where a tent had been erected, I in the first car with all the bridesmaids waving their posies out the window and the hooter blaring through the streets of Mpophomeni. Anne followed with our two Zulu assistants, and Kathy came last with the bridal couple and two of the boys ~ also blaring the hooters!
By the way, while we waited those weeks for this event to take place, another baby girl had been born. At 2 months now, she was dressed in a warm white bunny suit for the occasion, and not to be outdone, the boys were provided with new jackets and shoes.
Thembelihle, bless her heart, had made herself an outfit to match the girls’ dresses, and had bought sufficient lime green chiffon and white lace to drape the rear of the tent. She had taught the girls a dance step to which they entered the service, to the keyboard music and singing, blaring through the sound systems. They looked very sweet as they entered, led by Thembelihle and little six year-old Minenhle. When the girls were seated, she went back and re-entered with the groom dancing at her side, and finally, she came in with the bride who walked sedately towards her man who met her halfway down the aisle.
Pastor Mjwara’s message to them was inspired and full of wise advice to the couple. There was the exchange of vows and rings, the kissing of the bride, and later, the cutting of the cake ~ all of which was somewhat foreign to the Zulu custom. However, the songs of praise and worship not only filled the tent, but rang out into the community beyond. During refreshments of cake and juice, there were speeches, and the bride and groom each shared their testimonies. I believe God smiled on that ceremony that day. I believe it was a witness of true commitment to one another and to God, to their children and to everyone who was present. We congratulate them for the stand they have taken, and may they continue to honour their commitment.
The celebration lasted until 3 pm when I took the bridal party back to their home, where their family were waiting to cook a meal and continue with the festivities.
A truly happy and God-glorifying day!
Nora Levang.
Thembi
Thembelehle and I first visited this patient on the 27th January 2010. She and her two brothers had recently moved into the Qua Chief area, with none of them employed they had no food and so were both physically and morally very down. In the following 3 weeks Thembi was thrown out of the dwelling as the brothers were unhappy with her HIV status.
It was some 3-4 weeks later Thembelehle found Thembi in a shack – our subsequent visit was quite traumatic, she had only as much clothes as she could carry, no bed, blankets, utensils or stove – worst was the look of hopelessness and defeat in Thembi’s eyes.
At that visit we prayed for Thembi, prayed for material things. At this point I told Thembi that her name was in my prayer book and that God hears all prayers. Coincidently the following week Glynis asked me to list my patients with a brief summary of each one’s situation as her cell group wanted to pray for them. This resulted later in the month with pots, pans, bowls, a stove and then a week later a mattress, carpet and curtains – a neighbour gave a base for the mattress – WE SERVE A GREAT GOD.
Thembi asked for a Bible, which we supplied. It was so gratifying when she asked us if she could read a scripture Psalm 91 v 1 – “It is a good thing to give thanks to the Lord”..... Verse 5 “O Lord how great are thy works....”
It is very heart warming to visit Thembi these days, to pray and give thanks to the Lord for prayers answered. This lady has grown in confidence and her walk with Jesus – PRAISE THE LORD – OUR WONDERFUL PROVIDER.
It was some 3-4 weeks later Thembelehle found Thembi in a shack – our subsequent visit was quite traumatic, she had only as much clothes as she could carry, no bed, blankets, utensils or stove – worst was the look of hopelessness and defeat in Thembi’s eyes.
At that visit we prayed for Thembi, prayed for material things. At this point I told Thembi that her name was in my prayer book and that God hears all prayers. Coincidently the following week Glynis asked me to list my patients with a brief summary of each one’s situation as her cell group wanted to pray for them. This resulted later in the month with pots, pans, bowls, a stove and then a week later a mattress, carpet and curtains – a neighbour gave a base for the mattress – WE SERVE A GREAT GOD.
Thembi asked for a Bible, which we supplied. It was so gratifying when she asked us if she could read a scripture Psalm 91 v 1 – “It is a good thing to give thanks to the Lord”..... Verse 5 “O Lord how great are thy works....”
It is very heart warming to visit Thembi these days, to pray and give thanks to the Lord for prayers answered. This lady has grown in confidence and her walk with Jesus – PRAISE THE LORD – OUR WONDERFUL PROVIDER.
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